Men know how to protect what they love - in my relationships, my favorite thing about being with a man was knowing that if anyone looked at me sideways or attempted to be disrespectful to me, my man always stepped up to safeguard what he loved.
Men's bodies - yup, I said it. A man with a body built by the gods is everything! Ladies can I get an amen? What?! Men y’all have to understand that an amazing body gets you through the door - packaging is everything.
Men know how to say the right things - sweet nothings are part of what makes a relationship stay fresh. In my experience, African men in particular, know just how to ensure that a woman is feeling her best. No shade to other men, but when a man goes from calling you his sweet potato or sugar banana to his empress - ummm yeah, I’m all about it! Sign. Me. Up.
Men offer the most logical advice - I love that most men are hardwired problem solvers. This is why ladies, sometimes you have to tell your man - i don’t need an answer for this issue I’m having with my girlfriend, just listen - don’t solve.
Men know how to let things go - I really admire how most men can go from a tough exchange of words after a game of FIFA to high fiving each other in under an hour. How you don’t stay mad is amazing to me!
Men are loyal - men will stick with you through the rough and rachet days to the days when you are your best self. They will stand by you even when they know you are wrong for behaving the way you do.
Men are persistent - have you ever been pursued by a man? I mean a man who knew that you are exactly what he wanted? Persistent right? I absolutely love knowing that I am so valued and that I am worth the chase!
Three women going through life.