We are here to discuss an important topic: orgasms! Now, take this advice with a grain of salt since we’re not medical professionals; however, between having female anatomy and having open conversations with our friends about the do’s and don’ts that have happened during sex we would like to let you in on some key information.
Reality Check: Most women have faked at least one orgasm in their lives. Some have faked every single one with a partner, others would never dream of giving someone the satisfaction of faking one. Sorry to break it to you, but it is what it is, and to be quite honest I think we’ve been padding the male ego around our own satisfaction for FAR too long. It’s time to come clean.
Hey, Male Ego: Stop assuming that you are one of the few studs that actually knows what they are doing and humble yourself. The bottom line is that every woman’s body is different and we respond to your touch differently. So what you may have been doing in the past that got your girl to lose her mind every time may not work well with your next. Here are a few things to consider the next time you want to make all 20 toes curl and both backs arch.
Note: As we mentioned a few times above, all women are different. It is important to understand that some women don’t have orgasms. No matter how hard you try or how many articles you read - it just won’t happen. But that doesn’t mean she doesn’t enjoy the sex and intimacy; her body is just wired a little different. On the other hand, some women are able to orgasm multiple times in a row, we are like wonderballs you never know what you’ll get inside! If you are looking for more reading material check out Refinery 29’s Sex section.
Now, go forth and prosper!
Three women going through life.