We are done talking about men who disappoint us and would like to start the New Year on an uplifting note. So here it goes …
Dear men - welcome to 2018!
Continuing from our previous post, which you can check out here, in 2018, we really want you all to win big in your relationships, so here are a few more tips:
Protect Your Girl and Defend Her Honor: ok fellas, this is a biggie and can be a deal breaker, as women we want to know that our partner has our back and will defend our honor no matter what. An amazing boyfriend is one who defends his girlfriend when her safety is threatened, when she is being disrespected by others (including his friends or family not just strangers) and he knows when to step up and utilize effective strategies to make his lady feel safe and protected. Fellas, there’s no reason to make a woman ever feel alone and defenseless when you are in a relationship with her. Your job as her man his to protect her - always - and at all times.
Appreciate Her Value and Worth: this is relationship 101: why date someone if you do not know her worth or appreciate the value she adds to your life? to avoid ever losing out on an amazing woman because you treated her so selfishly she had no choice but dissolve your relationship, make sure to take some time to reflect and show her some compassion and acts of selflessness. Remember, it’s the little things that you do for her on a consistent basis that show how much she is appreciated and valued by you.
Make Her A Priority and Not An Option: Fellas, no woman wants to be in a relationship and play the second fiddle. No woman wants to ever feel like a plus one with her man, or a last-minute choice. When you put everything before your woman, when you never make time for her because you are always “busy”, when her needs are never important or a priority, then clearly, she is only an option to you. It’s time that you cater to your woman’s needs and desires by showing her how much she means to you: putting her first, making time for her, and making sure that she doesn’t ever feel invisible.
Invest In Every Aspect Of Her Life: Fellas, stop it with the selectiveness. This is what I mean by selectiveness: . do not be selective in which parts of your lady’s life you would like to invest in or play a part in when it’s convenient for you. If you really love someone, then everything that’s important to that person, also becomes important to you. Be supportive and be her biggest cheerleader. Show up and show out in every aspect of her life. From her career choices, her dreams, her family, the things she loves and the things that makes her happy. As her man it’s important that you are investing in those areas of her life that she deems important and holds dear to her heart.
This is it men! 2018 is here and we are cheering you on! Step up and do the most for your partners. You got this!
Three women going through life.