"To love someone deeply gives you strength. Being loved by someone deeply gives you courage”.
Relationship rule 101-- understand your significant other. This is the key ingredient that can make or break a relationship #Majorkeyalert. It’s important to take the time to know your lady; her needs, desires, what she responds to and how she feels love. Not sure where to start? We suggest you pick up Gary Chapman’s book “The Five Love Languages”, it will save you a lot in your relationship. You see just like how everyone has their own distinctive personality choices, we also have distinctive preferences for what we find fulfilling and stimulating when it comes to love.Your love language is the way that you feel the most loved and cared for. The problem is that most people dole out their love how they want to be loved, and often times it doesn't align with how their partner wants and needs to be loved. So understanding your partner’s love language is important in order for things to really work in your relationship.
According to Mr. Chapman the Five Love Languages are:
Fellas, do not underestimate the power of the love languages. I have seen many relationships fail because of this. For example, if your specific love language is Acts Of Service, and you show her love by washing the dishes (which would be nice) but then her love language is Physical Touch then you have completely missed an opportunity to express love as she understands it. I’m not saying she won’t appreciate your gesture; however, if you want to make her feel special or want her to know that you love her, then learn and practice her love language. Utilize her specific love language to communicate with her. Trust me doing this makes all the difference in a relationship.
So fellas, the next time you want to show your lady some love, use her love love language as you are trying to meet her needs not yours.
**Planning a date night with your lady? Take the quiz below and also send it to her to take it as well. Make sure you two discuss your love language results and how you would like to receive affection from each other**
To find out her love language and yours read Gary Chapman’s book and take this quiz website
Three women going through life.