We are not your back up plan.
We refuse to sit idly by and remain on the back burner.
No, we will not be an option in your life.
Playing third wheel to your mom and boys will not be tolerated.
Want to remain a mama’s boy? Then please, step aside so a real man can come into our lives and seal the deal.
With us, we will not accept the “just in case” syndrome.
You know, just in case your current relationship fails, just in case you figure out what you want, or just in case you are done hoeing around and finally want to settle down.
No sir, we will not be here waiting on you to man up!
Also, you can stop with the flirting and hinting of a future. Especially if you can’t make any concrete moves.
Like seriously, do not disturb our growth and glow up process if you have nothing positive to add to our lives.
And remember, every woman aint a rider like us, some are just simply fine with riding passenger.
They are loyal to you only because they need something from you and not because they believe in you, your dreams or your purpose (they will never take the wheel if you’re tired).
You need to recognize and appreciate the woman who can bring her own to the table, who holds you down like no other!
The one who makes it her mission to motivate and inspire you, and makes sure you reach new heights and levels. This kind of woman isn't here to merely ride with you, she wants you to own the entire amusement park!
But you don’t see her though right?
Well step aside sir, you are blocking our blessing!
Now, watch us move on, and see another man appreciate all that you took for granted!
Three women going through life.