If you are with a woman who says that you are her entire source of happiness – run! I’m just trying to help you out before you find yourself in an emotionally stifling relationship. I believe you should be able to make your lady happy, but you shouldn’t be her only source of happiness. You should be a source, not the source. It’s crazy to me how many men start ‘wanting out’ after they date ‘the girl of their dreams’. “What happened?”, I ask my male friends all the time. “She became too clingy” they respond. Ok fellas, this is what actually happened.
You found an amazing girl and you guys became close – even fell in love, but what you didn’t realize is that you became her whole life. Is this a bad thing? Yes! You should add to the life that your lady is already living, otherwise you will literally become the air that she breathes, even though R n B music sells that as true love.
Have you noticed any of these occurring with your lady?
Realize that you should encourage your lady to continue being engaged in the things that she loved – separate from you. You may enjoy many of the same things but try:
Remember, the goal is to be her support and not her superman. A woman will appreciate you more for rescuing her in times of need and not for solving all her problems. She will appreciate you for being a source of happiness and not her only source of happiness.
Trust me …
Three women going through life.