I’ve been single for a while now and it’s crazy to think that I may have missed my “hoe-tation” season! Y’all with me? No? Ok, let me break it down.
Your girl was casually watching the hit HBO show #Insecure and as Issa is going through her break up (spoiler alert) she wants to start hoe-ing. You know, the usual hooking up with random men and experiencing a sense of freedom that seems to only heighten your sensuality and knowledge of self during the period right after a break up, and before seriously dating again. So your girl was on the couch like - pero did I miss this phase?
I have been out of a relationship for a couple of years now and it’s apparent to me that:
Ok y'all, should I have hoe-d? I get that the hoe-taiton season helps get your confidence back, puts you in charge of your feelings, and apparently can turn out to be some of the best sex you ever had. So … did I miss this? Did I miss my hoe-tation window? I don't mean to sound panicked but watching Insecure and seeing Issa meander her way through her hoe-tations, while learning some hard lessons from them makes me question whether I missed the key things that I should have learned or rather that a hoe-tation would have imparted upon on me.
Did I miss my hoe-tation season? If I did, can I reclaim my time? If I didn't - why does Issa make hoe-tation season look so enticing?
Help a sister out!
Three women going through life.