Maybe, 2017 was one of your hardest years, and some of the things you hoped for did not come through. It’s easy to dwell in self-pity and grow weary of your current outcomes. However, try not to beat yourself up too much, we all go through these difficult phases from time to time. During these times, one of the most important things you can strive for is maintaining your sanity by attaining a peace of mind. In order to achieve this, there are three key things that you need to remember and do:
1) Practice the act of non-attachment- meaning:
2) Never forget to give yourself credit for going through challenging times and still standing with your head screwed on right and your heart intact.
Seriously sis, you have come really far! Make sure to celebrate your small victories and strength! #IssaWin
3) There is a saying that goes, ‘the woman you are becoming will cost you people, relationships, spaces and material things. Choose her over everything!’
This couldn’t be any truer. When you begin to choose your space before others, when you start to move towards a different direction in your life, or even when you begin to set boundaries and expectations, and demand better for yourself, you will notice that some will call you selfish. When this happens, quiet that noise and continue choosing you!
Adopting these practices and principles is the best starting point for gaining your sanity and peace of mind. It will give you the support and comfort that you need to tackle the rest of the obstacles in your life.
Three women going through life.